As a mother of three I thought the plot was very depressing not because of the death of a child but because she was so selfish. She was the only one who got to move on. She was the only one that got to make the choice for the baby’s remains The writer and movie people made the father out to be the bad guy and the grandmother as a dementia person who was not in here right mind when she felt like what happened when the baby died affected everyone. Goes back once again to only me (the mother) l am the only one that matters. A family is not just the woman when a child is lost the family extended family and friends feel the pain. But this is the whole we live in now.