I think this author watered down God's power and patted himself on the back in several of his stories or examples
I also think that the author's word choice exposed the areas that he has not turned over to God...he used the term "Hot Blonds" several times. Not a godly reference in a publication even when referring to his wife!
Also the story about him being a male prostitute to homosexuals was written in a creepy worldly way. Not of God. Not walking with Jesus