I was born and raised here in California, as well as my children, but my parents and Godparents are from the South. Let me say this, if I did not give respect to elders, TRUST ME, my parents, Godparents will come from heaven and BEAT my AS* and go back, because I did not give the respect to elders that I was to do they will knock my lights out, you can BANK on that!!!! If my children did something like that, they KNOW how I feel about this, and how they were raised. Even their friends, their parents have taught them them the same thing, because I have seen the respect that have given me, as well as my friends. It starts at home. My grandchildren, has the same respect.