I mean, the TV show does it's job of wanting to see a crazy time had by all.
* How this could work:
1.KNOW you are dealing with people who have continued to seek the easiest way out possible.
2. Many are traumatized by situations that they have NEVER healed from or even recognize (and may have a hard time accepting)
3. Rules, TO A POINT, are going to be necessary, make them accountable, without dehumanizing them or infantilism
4. Work with every situation that comes up, consequences should match the issue,nothing too harsh unless of course it puts themselves or others in immediate danger.
There seems to be a lack of knowledge or support for these people who are deciding to take huge steps in order to try to make a whole new life for someone that they are "acquainted with"
There should be more support immediately available, but that's not great TV.. right?