What really bothers me about the whole Demi and Kristian relationship is that if the people were different... as in a man that had been dating a woman back home and came to paradise for clarity. People would be tearing apart the man for already being in a relationship then coming on a TV show looking g for a relationship. It's such a double standard!! I'm all for same sex couples. I just think if it was a man who was juggling 2 woman everyone would react a lot differently!!