Dan shouldn't be in the book. What you looking for is someone who is a passive aggressive forgiver. Dan, He does what kid would do retaliates in aggressive way that's unbecoming of his character. He acts if he can't regulates his emotions and acts as if he's a big baby. No no. What you looking for is someone who smiles through the storm who is constantly abused by their partner or friend. An even when they communicate to that person they're still forgiving. And they're also conflict avoidance