Love this show and have watched it for years. The break up of this family is extremely sad for all involved, especially for the children and the wives.. However the total blame falls on Kody and Kody alone. He is self centered and childish and loves to be the center of attention. He just doesn’t get it because deep down he is nothing but a selfish little boy. I am truly truly sad his children have had to deal with that but am happy the wives are finally moving on to find some inner happiness.