I'm going to say this once these people getting out of prison need time to get their mindset after they get out all I see is selfish behavior if you plan on keeping your partner be more sensitive to what they endured inside those walls it's not about having babies or getting married it's about understanding and learning each other at a careful pace letters and phone calls are not the same as in person just breathe for once insecurities are not an option okay let's do better