Neal A. Maxwell is one of my favorite Apostles, authors, and speakers; he is a well known person in The Church of Jesus Christ of Later-day Saints. He has an armory of words that teach a grander meaning of what he is saying. And he has a voice like none other! Phrases and favorite quotes are heard often in his writings and talks.
He has taught me the greatest way to learn how to have charity, the pure love of Christ, is through suffering. When we are suffering we learn just how greatly Jesus loved us. We can love others because He first loved us. This is Charity.