Seija Rampanen

I was raised in the 80's, hence reluctant to try any type of 'gentle or positive' parenting. Any parenting experience I've had has been mimicked from my 'no nonsense, speak when you're spoken to' childhood, and always 'worked'....until now. I am a 44yr old step mom to a very unruly 3 yr old. After many frustrating days, tears and screaming I decided that I needed help. This book has been amazing and I'm only half way through. There are many real life examples given and simple tools to use for combatting everyday parenting struggles. By simple tools, I mean basic language use....words to avoid and what to replace them with. I am a much happier and more relaxed step mom thanks to this book. And, my 3 yr old is learning how to regulate his feelings. It's a win-win!