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My concern is that while consent is essential to learn, it wavers the fact that genuine predators by their very nature, male and female, DO NOT CARE, about rights and laws My concern is that is very real fact is overlooked and is not taught the same way Also with the clear left leaning and ideology inspired tone Especially towards sex workers and pornography, it seems to shame them She is young and inevitably naive as how the real world works in this area and there in lies the inevitable ideology vs reality in terms of sex workers and industry But mainly - the idea that you can teach genuine predators not to do this stuff is like believing you can teach a serial killer not to murder It's important for individuals to know their rights and such of course and what to be aware of But as the much wiser Jordan Petersen said: "Psychopathic predators are NOT going to stop themselves" Also There is nothing wrong with natural lads banter When I was a lad we would banter about girls and women and more so each other Teen trash talk is natural and shameless The difference being with social media is that boys do not always realise that anyone can read their locker room comments and thus they are accused of being something they are not Trash talk and banter is as natural as wrestling When I was a lad we would do this all the time and never once would be say anything actually predatory or do anything as such Why? Because that would have been a red flag and made that person saying it a social outcast And the same lads who would as teens banter and trash talk and such in private We were the same lads showing women and girls not only absolute respect, we would at teen gatherings act as their bodyguards and protectors at all time What we should have been taught and I agree with this Was Red flag lessons When and what the signs are of a creep near by and that is more essential now than ever with the online access predators have now to naive kids I remember being a kid going online taling in chat rooms and my father HIT THE ROOF when he found out and demanded to know why my school hadn't warned boys and girls my age of online dangers back then Nothing ever happened to me But I didn't understand the danger of that until much later Red flags are probably even more important than consent classes Consent lessons are important absolutely But so too are from a non ideological standard One that does not shame anyone One that also teaches red flags And also what needs to be taught especially in the aftermath of now so many false allegation cases Is what to do if a friend or even you are falsely accused and the importance of innocent until/unless proven guilty