I enjoy the show but find the ignorance of most of the guest to be offensive. Why must you get on t.v. to show just how ignorant you are but that's just it, it's to get on t.v. I'm sure most of these women know that " YOU ARE NOT THE FATHER" before they come on the show but that is that 5min of fame syndrome. For those who really are seeking answers you can see the pain and the embarrassment but it don't make you a bad person we all have made mistakes in life. We all want love but stop looking for it let love find you.