Pedro I use to feel bad for you bro. Now I don't understand when it seem like finally you were getting along with Chantel's family you want to quit the marriage on excuse she has no goals, she's not cleaning the house etc.. Do you love her? There's nothing wrong with marrying someone and wanting to have a family that is her goal ,she's also a professional woman. . You mentioned you want to work on your life and your goals. At least give her credit that she help you to get here so you can have goals and work on your life. Seem she is trying so hard to work it out with you but you are not interested. Why did you marry her?