I read and interpret the book as what I initially thought that Harry and Megan believe everyone was against them so took everything to heart and acted like spoilt brats spitting their dummy out.
The Royal family for years have had protocol in if other engagements are taking place the others wait their turn to announce theirs. Why do Harry and Megan feel there news was more important and should have been announced earlier than others or at the same time?
William was just trying to make sure Harry was making the right decision as a concerned brother but to take to words away from.the conversation and use it to call him a snob grow up
We all know that our beautiful future queen Kate is shy. If Megan wanted a close relationship why was it upto Kate to knock at your door. Knock at her door a few times and say wow I am struggling how did you do it. It might have helped build a relationship with a shy person. Not down to everyone else to make friends with you Meghan