Unless your in this crock pot situation it's impossible to dispense advice on how you would or should act. Having said that; condoning lying and lying by omission and being unfaithful is not okay any time. No justification makes it ok. Those who feel it's ok and make excuses for their actions in hurting others would probably be the first to scream blue murder if it happened to them. I'm speaking of Jessika and Dan of course. It is attempting to give the younger generation the wrong messages. If this is the way the show is going to continue, I for one will not watch it again. This is a sad state of affairs, excuse the pun.