I like the fact the he is becoming himself..BUT.. you dont have to conform yourself into thinking gay is all about parties and having random sex wit dudes, dressing and being overly femme as part of coming out . i did not like the pressure that was put on him at the little coming out party.(too much) He can still be exactly like he is now...and be an OPEN gay man... .just feel YOUR way thru it...not what others think...and you will NEVER get everyone's approval.. so please stop stressn on that.. Especially the church . you have a great relationship with GOD ..keep it.. Keep your faith in GOD and live your best life.. .and. NO one can be your TRUE friend.. If you are not being TRUE to yourself... 💪🏿💙..