I wonder why the experts paired couples together after one of the couples expressed the type of person they are active too. Yes looks fade and change but personality does not. The other person has an up hill battle trying to prove they can be loved by the person who is not attracted to them. Luke is an immature jerk to say he was repulsed and felt dead inside after kissing Kate. If you felt that then keep it to yourself. Don't hurt someone's feelings to hammer in the you are not liking the choice the "experts" made for you! If this relationship goes on I can see a power struggle. Kate will be a doormat bending over backwards trying to please Luke so he will love her. He will continue to say hurtful and verbally abusive things. Girl cut your losses and move on!