If you’re married and you haven’t picked up this read, you should run (NOT WALK) to your nearest bookstore and grab it! I felt compelled to write this review in the middle of the night because I’ve been practicing these principals with my husband (whom I’ve been on the outs with for a while)…. WHEN I TELL YOU IF YOU SUBMIT TO THESE TEACHINGS WITHOUT WAVERING, they really work. I’m falling back in love with the person that I thought I could live without! We’ve been married for a decade and this is the best response I’ve gotten from him in years. He’s actually explaining himself in a calm manner and I’m understanding because I used the principles from this book along with prayer. It only took three days to break ground. Have an open mind and try not to be stuck in the past. This is truly an awesome blueprint to marriage and friendship! I can’t wait to start using these tactics on other difficult relationships in my life! Buy the book! Thank me later!