It is such a staged up show. There is nothing realistic about it and further the idea propogated by her to all the females she meet that it is the woman who has to adjust and make sacrifices is really sad. Such patriarchal values when forced and spread openly in shows like this, will only lead to different forms of violence against women when they don't comply to these so called gender norms. Being a female herself, the matchmaker should have been more progressive towards her own gender.