They are not very good at matching people up. It's so obvious that many are mismatched from the very beginning. Also this is not a Christian based show. They say you can get divorced if it doesn't work out. Biblically speaking there are no divorces in Gods eyes. You make a vow before God until death do you part. The only grounds for divorce is adultery. That pastor will be held to a higher accountability before God for his actions when he crosses over.