I see things differently now. While there are some things that should’ve been left private, besides egos feeling insulted, I don’t find the revelations to be deliberately insulting but rather honest from his standpoint. The never complain, never explain mentality is clearly still upheld and bringing these things to light is only causing an uproar because the other side would like these things to remain hidden rather than acknowledging wrongdoing. Just because a sibling’s spouse doesn’t fit the bill you have for them doesn’t means it grants anyone permission to be condescending and blameshift because the dynamic has changed. Things could have been approached differently from both sides, but it is clear that this was never about hogging the limelight on Harry’s side. It seems that William likes for him to be in his shadow, just my perspective.