Let's start with the negatives to get them out of the way.
The jokes about woke culture. It felt more like a conservative stand up routine or how they make fun of California and "leftists/liberals" than anything else. It shows inclusivity and all that, but then goes on to stereotype gen z and basically mock activism and feminism. It feels like it loses its tone at those points and feels more like conservative humour that hasn't changed since 2016. No one acts like that with real issues, high schoolers don't act like that all the time. Another downside is the obvious romance with Seth. The second he was talking to her dad and he was pushing him to ask her out, I knew we were going to do the whole "she's into someone else, but he's the one who really loves her" and it was not a shock at all. I even announced it to my friend. It didn't feel rewarding or enjoyable, it felt boring. It felt cliche and not in a fun way at all. I was rooting against them ending up together because it's so stereotypical, right down to the him getting mad at a misunderstanding. And with her still being mentally 17 (which provides a lot of strange differences), it didn't feel like they should end up together at all. I would have loved to see a "we would have made a good couple" but then they move on cause he's matured and she will too.
Now with that out of the way, let's see what I liked. It was nostalgic, fun, and enjoyable. The music fit so well, I loved seeing the differences between 2002 and 2022. A lot HAS changed and you can even see that by how diverse the school looks n present day. My school was the same way, it would be majority white, but has become more diverse in recent years. It's amazing to see that change, such a minute detail, added in.
There were moments I genuinely laughed out loud and other moments where I truly felt emotional and felt for the characters. I also liked that the "mean girl" Tiffany wasn't just a cartoon supervillain mean girl. I felt she still had a real side to her even if she was the antagonist and reminded of someone that needs therapy. The characters all felt real and enjoyable for the most part and Stephanie definitely felt like an insecure teen that was too scared to open up. Just knowing my disorders, I could relate so heavily to that.
Is the film perfect? Nah. Is it enjoyable? Yes. Would I recommend it? Probably or most likely. It's a fun time and perfect to turn your brain off to. Don't expect some satirical masterpiece or Mean Girl levels of self awareness. It isn't there. But it's still fun and honestly shows some real mental health conditions, even ones I live with, although I know they didn't even consider that. It had some flaws and some unenjoyable moments that felt more like a mockery (including the r slur talk about it not being appropriate came off in a sort of "talking down to" way even though it is an ableist slur against autistic folks like me and other disabilities), but it was an enjoyable movie that I had fun watching with my friend. It's nice to turn your brain off and enjoy the movie. It isn't for everyone and I can see why people will find it uninteresting, annoying, or tiresome. It's been done better in many ways. Still, I had fun watching it and I went into it with expectations that it would be trash, but it's fun trash. It had some good points, it had some bad points that really killed it. But it's fun. So yeah, I liked it and I'd probably watch it again one day.