I find the show realistic and unrealistic at the same the sex scenes dont see that real to me giving the lighting and places but I appreciate what the show is trying to accomplish. I dont feel sorry for Billie since if your not happy with anything in a relationship or marriage then you leave kids or not. We all had that partner that satisfied us in every sexual aspect but are they the ones you marry no. However it's a marriage and you work on it everyday not just when you want mind blowing sex. I think most people would find this show ok and sexy but others it's a unrealistic turnoff