Finding Me by Viola Davis - "I knew my life would be a fight, and I realized this: I had it in me."
4.8/5
Being placed in the backseat of this emotionally overcoming novel is not for the weak or fate of the heart. Viola Davis gives a direct, straight to the veggies approach, and does not disappoint. From the first one of the book you're hooked, often find yourself saying, "Yeah, that sounds like Mrs. Viola." It's amazing to be able to hear her voice and every word, line, and page. As one of the greatest actresses of our generation, her voice is prominent, we hear it, with eyes closed, backs turned, or mid-conversation, and collectively know that's Viola Davis. The depth of storytelling presence captivates you, and Finding Me is no different.
From start to finish, I was engulfed in the Journey of the story, seat belt on for impact. Through interviews and the portrayal of certain characters, she's played over her career, the feeling that her childhood was rough was present but nothing prepares you for the reality of hearing her tell it. I fell apart with her as she relived and retail stories of her childhood, adulthood, the price of being a struggling actress and artist that no one advertises, and the hurtful and at times infuriating truth of overcoming your past to better your present, to extend your future, and to find yourself.
I'll admit, I expected no less from Mrs Viola Davis. I think if the book was bad I couldn't comprehend the possibility. Anyway, I'm glad that is far from the case. Not only does this book pull you in, but it holds up a mirror to every black girl who has felt unseen, unworthy, and unfound. It made me reflect on my life and the eight-year-old girl I often see when I think about how far I can go and the things she had to endure to get me here.
Finding yourself is a long, hard, and triggering process to say the least and if you haven't thought about that journey, finding me will make you more than consider it. To feel, know, and comprehend Viola's story may take you more than one read, and more than one time of your life. I read this book at 25 and already I know the future me will need to hear those words again. It's hard when you're on the Journey of chasing a dream, of giving your all to a vision of your life, of your joy but your reality doesn't reflect it, and your past makes it seem almost impossible. Finding the strength and motivation to pull yourself out of the floor, beating and bruising for the next round of life is not for the week, and lying on the floor and defeat was not an option for Mrs Viola Davis.
Favorite Quotes:
• Memories are immortal. They’re deathless and precise. They have the power of giving you joy and perspective in hard times. Or, they can strangle you. Define you in a way that’s based more in other people’s tucked-up perceptions than truth.
• May you live long enough to know why you were born.
• Taking off the wig in HTGAWM was my duty to honor Black women by not showing an image that is palatable to the oppressor, to people who have tarnished, and punished the image of Black womanhood for so long. It said all of who we are is beautiful. Even our imperfections.
• And whereas I can’t live inside yesterday’s pain, I can’t live without it.
• Remember the love. . . . Don’t play the pain and betrayal, play the woman fighting hard to restore the love.