As a compulsive re watcher of movies/shows who will watch a good film over & over & over until I know the script myself lol I base a good movie on โwould I watch this again?โ Unfortunately for โwe live in timeโ the answer is no.
The film outlines lifeโs greatest/hardest times, accomplishments, failures, love and loss. To start with some positives the acting is great which is expected from such actors, also the young girl grace who plays the mains daughter did a wonderful job. In many scenes there is no background music it is simply what life sounds like which I really appreciated & made it seem all the more โrealโ
Tobias, the main male character had such a warm, kind, wears his heart on his sleeve type of presence.
We donโt know much about him other than he works at weatbix, has a divorce & lives with his dad. Would have liked to know more about him.
I canโt say the same for Almut the main female character. I tried my best to like her but she was simply unlikeable. It seemed like a dull impersonation of Bridget jones where she used the word fuck as much as possible & had a โthis is me deal with itโ personality only without the charm. She was mean, rude & ungrateful constantly changing her mind about major life decisions. She got engaged then completely disregarded getting married & instead chose to focus on a chef competition??? Her poor fiancรฉ Tobias was left hanging & they never even get married. This seemed like yet another feminist approach shoved into a film to somehow make us believe that winning a competition is more important than your own partner. In the end she left the competition right before finding out if she wins. Talk about a waste of time.
In the end she dies of cancer which is tragic but as someone who cries very easily in films not one tear was shed. We didnโt get to see a death scene, funeral or anything. For a film outlining life I was expecting a very sad goodbye scene & when the credits rolled I was shocked & disappointed.
All we get is a cliche her waving to her husband to signify she will die and we just assume she did.
Not to be insensitive but she could have from the beginning got her cancer taken out by having a hysterectomy and she would have lived. She chose to keep her ovary so she could have kids even though it was cancerous. For someone who didnโt even want kids at the beginning of the movie she ended up dying to have one when she could have just frozen her eggs & had a surrogate carry her child.
Wasnโt the worst thing Iโve seen but the trailer made it look a lot better than it is.
2 stars