Jonathan Giovanni Bourdier

I recently had the chance to watch It Ends with Us, and it was an experience that truly resonated with me. It’s been so long since I’ve set foot in a movie theater, but this film stirred something deep within me, compelling me to share my thoughts. Despite the noise and controversy swirling around on social media, particularly about how the film addresses domestic violence, I believe there’s much more to it. The movie was exceptionally well-written, directed, produced, and cast. Blake Lively was right when she said the film touches every facet of human emotion. Yes, the central theme is domestic violence, and I don’t want to detract from that vital message. However, I don’t think either Blake Lively or director Justin Baldoni set out to overshadow that message—rather, the story unfolded in a way that naturally intertwined with various aspects of life. To me, the film hits the mark on multiple levels. It’s a reminder not to give up on your dreams, to avoid judging or bullying others—Atlas’s story is a poignant example of that—and to confront and break free from past traumas that can haunt our present and future. The film beautifully illustrates the importance of self-love. It’s about putting yourself first so you can love more deeply and receive the love you truly deserve. It’s also a testament to the power of divine timing. As a parent of four, with my youngest being my daughter, the film struck a chord with me about the responsibility we carry. Our children absorb so much from our ups and downs, especially in a world as chaotic as ours. We must be mindful of the memories we create for them because they can have lasting effects. In the end, It Ends with Us reminded me that, at 36 with four kids, I don’t have to give up on my dreams. Healing takes time, self-love is essential, and most importantly, I must protect my children’s innocence and kindness. Blake Lively’s promotion of the film feels authentic and sincere, and I couldn’t agree with her more. In many ways, this movie reminds me of Crash (2004) by Paul Haggis—it’s a subtle yet powerful narrative that leaves a lasting impact.