I think that tamar's selfishness is getting old. she is immature needing to control all aspects. tamar and traci don't get along because they both have a victim's perspective. they see themselves always as the victim. Tamar never lack empathy for others and has a need to always be in the spot light. It says a lot about a person who cannot share her SISTER joy. i suspect this is the reason she didn't make it on the talk show her inability to share spot light, her need to control and seeing herself as the center of attention. she has a lot to offer however she doesn't see this as she seeks outside validation. asking permission for a proposal is stupid, don't dish out what you cannot take. given back to you. all that said it is good to see that they have same problems as everyone else and the same joys