This book is wondeful but I have a doubt is it necessary to go through a painful period for the sake of attracting a woman. It don't seems sense like a logic. We must go through painful period for making our life peaceful not for attracting woman. In this world, there's no such gurrantee or a compulsory rule to love a woman. It's the men wish. My suggestion is that please men don't go through a painful journet for the sake of woman, go through it for making your life beautiful. I think life and career is far more important than woman because career and life gives you many chances and not with the woman. So, stop this painful hourney for attractinf your woman.