Marriage Story is one of the defining films of 2019. It’s a brilliantly profound, horribly realistic masterpiece.
(This review is spoiler free)
To take something as trivial as marriage and weave such an intricately told story requires talent that’s almost unheard of. Noah Baumbach delivers a nuanced, wonderfully executed tale of lost love.
Visually, this film is indecisive. There are scenes with the most breathtaking aesthetics, and there are scenes that are no more than ‘mediocre’. But Baumbach never fails to provide his cinematic expertise, using familiar locations, such as a living room or kitchen, and ripping away the familiarity with the conflict the couple is going through.
One of my favourite parts of this film is the very beginning. We hear the characters give monologues about each other, describing their partners in a suspiciously positive light. Perhaps too positive. Then, in an unexpected twist, we see them in a counselling session, and it turns out that the supposedly perfect marriage no longer exists.
And that’s what most of this film is — a twisted road of betrayal and loss. There’s no time for the audience to breathe. Just when you think you know what’s going to happen, there’s a new development and you’re forced to catch up again.
There isn’t a scene in the film that felt over-the-top or unnecessary. And Marriage Story contains some of the best acting of the last decade — not only Johannson, but Driver delivers as well. Particularly the now infamous argument scene; at one point I forgot I was watching a film. I thought I was watching a genuine argument between two married people. That’s how good the acting was.
Another good thing is how we’re not forced to pick sides. With most divorce films, there’s a good guy and a bad guy — the abused wife trying to escape her deranged husband, the desperate husband trying to escape his psychopathic wife; we are usually presented with a hero and a villain, and it’s clearly laid out who’s who.
With Marriage Story, however, there is no clear hero or villain. The narrative switches perspective frequently, and I was rooting for Charlie when it was from his perspective, and I was rooting for Nicole when it was from hers. Both characters make me hate them at some point in the film, and both characters make me feel sorry for them, if not like them, at some point in the film.
It’s a masterful, viscerally authentic portrayal of a crumbling marriage. Rarely have I ever been so moved by a film.
Rating: 10/10
Recommendation: Definitely.