Meri makes herself the martyr by divorcing Kody so Robin's kids could be adopted. She holds resentment because although she offered she never thought Kody would give her up to adopt children that were not his. Once committed , Meri could not back out. When she realizes Kody loved Robin more, she takes her hurt out on the internet and gets catfished. No one in the family really gives Meri the comfort she seeks because they feel it was a betrayal to Kody. Now it has been Meri pushing the envelope ever since, trying to play victim, while constantly sabotaging the family. (i.e. not sharing profits from the b&b with the family, waiting to make decisions at the last minute and playing constant victim ). Meri is constantly trying to get back the power she had while being first wife and legally bound to Kody. The power dynamic shifted and Kody is too dense to notice anything other than his hair falling out faster than his relationship with Meri ended. Meri needs to go make a life of her own, find a man that loves ONLY her and live happily ever after. Janelle,Christine and Robin can continue on with Kody stars in their eyes, but I would bet Meri turns out to be the winner in this fiasco of a s#@$ show.