He was basically an adult. Taking on adult roles. Raising children. Holding a job. Drinking alcohol at a University with +21 year olds and smoking pot. Clearly having sex before he met the teacher. She was a boring teacher with low emotional maturity. She also looked anorexic which made her look 15 and not a body I’m attracted to. Whereas he was already raising children. It evens out in a sad way. I saw him pursue her with the friend requests, the forced kiss in the classroom. He is not innocent other than the fact she was the love of his life and he got heartbroken. 2 poor souls that needed each other at that point in fukd up time.