First read this book after the death of my husband. How could this author possibly know all my thoughts and emotions of becoming a widow, but he writes as if he is an intimate friend with knowledge of my inner most feelings. I keep this book in a drawer next to my bed and have read and reread it countless times. Stewart O'Nan has no idea how much comfort his words have brought me over the years. He is truly an amazing author with the ability to touch your heart.