This is a very useful book - it's helped me with all my relationships, not just romantic. There are a lot of pitfalls in dealing with people, and this book allows you to take responsibility for your part. The advice in this book is very straightforward and accessible, which I appreciate. The truth is nurturing a relationship takes more than love, it takes intention and effort. If you and your partner want to do the active engagement that a healthy relationship needs, then this book is a good primer
I liked the parts about "healthfully expressing your emotions" because I have a hard time with that. This book helped me talk about what I needed in an honest way.