All the people complaining should just go watch some Disney movie or trashy rom-com where they spoon feed you how you're supposed to feel and who you're supposed to "cheer" for, the movie is supposed to be "confusing" the point is that it doesn't spell everything out for you. The power dynamics are constantly changing and that's the point. No one is ever in full control until it happens, that's the point! Well that's how I feel about it, but you can watch it and see what you think.
Regardless of what you think about the story, great aesthetic, creative shots, beautiful settings, nice colours, a film like this can't be a waste of time if you just enjoy the scenery.
People aren't used to being told how to feel and it shows! Or lack empathy.