The mom/wife on this show is the most controlling woman I have ever seen. Wow guilt tripping your husband using your daughter's health...wow. Where is all the support you profess to have? Allow him to support his familyw/o you reacting negatively everytime controlling with guilt everytime Using your Family. Shame on you. If you had considered really the impact of saying no & NOT BUDGing on YOUR MOST IMPORTANT position, you would understand that you said NO to a home in Dallas, NO to a new opportunity...to stand on your own 2 feet and FACE YOUR FEARS. Look at what you are teaching your daughters ....to give up everything you love for your children, you are not teaching balance. ....to react to everything with fear and look like you're being responsible. wow your fear & need to control your own mom & dad, sisters & their families. ...all under a christian presentation...seriously Jesus did not live in fear, did not preach living in fear. You could work harder to support more of your husband's perspectives vs passively aggressively shaming,guilting him for not caring the exact way you do. who made you GOD, you are not all knowing. In fact at this point, I'm not sure your opinion matters so much given the obstacles you continue to seek to embrace. God help you!. Written by a woman not afraid to stand on her own 2 feet.