I can clearly understand and personally relate to this series even as a male. The same thing happened to me as a young 18 year old teenager at a small private college in Brevard, NC ( 1983) by one of my Male college professors. I could not tell anyone at the time; because I was that " Male Jock; " and I was afraid to tell anyone, plus, I felt ashamed of myself. So, I had to prove to myself that I am still a man; thus, I dropped out of the college and I joined the military to forget what happened to me.....I am now 55 years old, and I will never forget that I was" drugged and raped by one of male professors in college " ....Thus, I now know that " it was not my fault " and by writing and talking about it has clearly helped me.
( FYI : On, 29Sept2020, I am finally adding the college town to my post, because I have currently contacted this college in the past a few months + on what happened to me back in 1983, and they still have not responded to me or to care. )
Semper Fidelis, Lawrence V. DeLong