My overall honest opinion:
I was really worried when all I saw was a bunch of woke stuff online. Truthfully, it is a VERY small part of the game. The game itself has plenty of depth outside gender identity. I would recommend a playthrough. I’ve been a fan since Dragon Age Origins and have played every single installment of the series. If you’re a fan of the older games, you may have to take sort of a backseat and keep an open mind. That being said, as an older fan myself, I still find it to be a decent Dragon Age game. Definitely worth a try. Don’t listen to the review bombs.