Jen is me, minus the children. I became a widow at the age of 32 (4 years married, altogether 13 years together so not a short time period), from one normal weekend to the funeral weekend. And the love and hate jen feels is so real that I am going to ask some people in my life to watch this show. Most people cannot understand a situation like this, where there was good and bad, and after an ending like this, there is no closure, ever. And you love and miss them at the same time as curse and hate them. Its like watching myself, and I feel justified in how I feel. Someone on that writing team has to have experienced something like this, cause believe me this is real. To say this show is therapeutic is an understatement. Sorry for the weird review.