Queen of Tears isn't your average Korean Romance Drama.
It doesn't dwell a lot on courtship to feel love in the early dating phases. It doesn't have adorable food wars between the lead and his woman.
Queen of Tears incorporates involving ego, pride and hatred into the structure of marriage until it crumbles - until they can't stand each other, until the promises once made with love are seen as a burden and when silent treatments are the only active form of communication.
Abandonment, betrayal, loss, loneliness are prominent themes of the drama. And yet- It shows you the route out; of accepting all the quirks, shortcomings and idiosyncrasies of the persons involved in the commitment and still wanting to go by life with them.
It depicts how marriage isn't a linear progression of love but rather an everyday attempt of filling in your glass jar with happy moments so you have something to anchor you in the moments when your partner feels like your enemy.
Queen of Tears dwells on the comeback - repairing after conflicts, talking about the tough stuff instead of choosing to let it slide fostering resentments about it, choosing love over ego even when there is a possibility of rejection, engaging in healthy communication and everything in between.
Love is not fancy, love is not grand, love is not boastful.
Love is kind, love is calm, love is grounded, love is reassuring.
Love is not blind. Love is accepting