I love this show. But Whitney: you cannot help Buddy if He wont try to help himself. He has a Sponsor he can call, and Narcotics Anonymous has a 24-7 Hotline. You are enabling him if he allows you to feel guilty about his actions. Hes a grown man and you are not responsible for his actions or behavior. Tough love is exactly what it mend: its tough. But necessary. I love you Whitney! 😘