I feel like this movie kind of missed the mark.
The film mainly focuses on the couple, who are dealing with multiple different issues at the same time. It touches on having a child who doesn't conform to gender standards, the process of applying to various schools, miscarriage, and two parents trying to navigate through it all.
I thought that the mother was extremely combative and standoffish, which didn't appeal to me at all. It's like she's been split in two... On one hand she encourages her son to express himself however he wants by allowing him to play with dolls and dress up, which is pretty much the only positive message that this movie manages to hit. However, she then kind of undoes it all by how she reacts to other people noticing the fact that Jake is different. Meanwhile the father was a very flat character who seemed confused and/or uncomfortable throughout the whole story even though he's supposed to be a therapist.
I like the overall concept of the movie, but everything about it was executed poorly. I also got the sense that the film was really trying to label Jake as transgendered when it should have been more focused on how it's completely acceptable for a boy to like "girlie" things or vice versa.
I don't think there should really be a label for people who aren't necessarily following gender standards... like me. (I consider myself a tomboy. I generally enjoy stuff that's more geared towards "men" instead of women, but I'm not transgender. I'm not a lesbian either. I'm just a young woman who's into more "masculine" things).