I watched your show which was televised on Nov 11, 2020. The 30 year old who spent all his time on the couch. I dont think you get it. I understand why you wouldn't because it is hard to understand if you haven't been through it. He is obviously depressed. He is not depressed because he is not doing anything, he is not doing anything because he is depressed. I have been through it and it is really hard to get anything done and when you don't get anything done you feel even worse. He needs treatment and maybe some cbt training to get through this. It is the only way I got better. When I was sick having a shower was the hardest thing in the world. Now I am back at work and cleaning my house every couple of days. Im getting my dog out for walks. It is a horrible illness with a lot of stigma and in my opinion your reaction and answer to this promotes stigma. If it was that easy, he would be doing it. No one wants to feel that way or live like that. Its not his fault.