This book is utterly atrocious. It is VERY repetitive and VERY western idealized. YUCK. Every single chapter without fail mention sex in some weird and uncomfortable way- sometimes with young girls...ew. I had to read this for school and it wasn't helpful at all as it just pointed out the obvious. I hated every minute reading this and it ruined my summer. I BLAME YOU TOMMY FOSTER you ruined my summer :(