When this book was written i knew by writing it what would lie ahead i always knew that saying i was gay would be harder so i wrote this book. Knowing i would lose my home that belonged to my mom i would also lose her and my income and income and my the people i loved and we where not even related i am not a trust fund kid because i will have nothing so when you read a memoir who am i ? By Benjamin Blake you reading about some people who know how to forgive and some that will never understand but stay strong and don't let other people drag you down because of the fact that you are living a truth and not a lie about what you want in life and they can't or want because of fear of others.