Donna Curle

If you’re a family scapegoat and already know it, this book is useless. I am so disappointed and let down again by this ”author.” They really need to start taking accountability for themselves. They have written that they are triggered by people posing as scapegoat coaches and is jealous of others succeeding. Every video she has on YouTube is her pointing out how qualified she is. It’s so cringey in my experience. People admire this woman but she is actually a bully. The author is conducting some groundbreaking research, however she is simultaneously causing a lot pf pain in the family scapegoat community as she is in cohorts with a group admin who is very abusive when you disagree with her. Her and the author RCM are very skilled manipulators in upsetting people who are trying to heal from lifelong abuse. Rebecca will not take accountability for anyone she has hurt and defends her toxic behaviour. PEOPLE NEEE TO KNOW THE TRUTH. If you have a look at her videos, people will comment horrific details of their abuse and her only response is based on your comment. I suggest you watch my video on this. There’s not one ounce of compassion, empathy, care or respect for somebody in a vulnerable situation, she looks down on everybody in healing, in my experience anyway. As healing tools, she, ms Mandeville says “find a therapist” but in the same breath, she ensures the readers understand that 99% of therapists are not educated on this type of family scapegoat abuse?! It is so contradictory. The links to websites for resources are not even up to date and she promotes a support service that SHE WORKS FOR. This service is notoriously harmful for gas lighting victims of this type of abuse. It’s a very self congratulatory publication and the truth will come out about this author too, mark these words. Lots is to be revealed about her and Rhonda Waddles. The title is so ironic considering that the author and her minions actually have rejected, shamed and blamed people who were trying to support them in their endeavours but she incorrectly misreads peoples comments and bullies them in real life. To me, it’s like the eagles. I can’t stand Don Henley and Glen Frey, however they made done great music together. If you don’t know you’re a family scapegoat, this book will help you with the puzzle pieces but do not idolise this author, she is dangerously harmful and has a sense of superiority that is preceded by no one. Kat Rogers said 2024 is the year when the toxic people in this world are exposed. This is one. I hope this isn’t deleted or reported nc it’s just snotty instance of not believing the victim and staying silent and compliant to an abuser. I hope this woman finally finds the introspection to apologise to those she has hurt.