The rules are if both parties write leave then they must leave. But why have the experts changed the rules for Dan and Jess???? Perhaps for ratings ?? And why did they not mention that Jess had also tried to come on to Nick. But Nick like a good husband rejected her advances. Perhaps Dan should take a lesson from Nick. The experts are weak and do not represent marriage consultants This show is an insult to happy married couples. I and many friends will never watch this show again