I’ll say it a million times: THIS IS SIERRA BURGESS DONE RIGHT!!!! You can have a catfish story that isn’t COMPLETELY manipulative and creepy…. While cat-fishing itself is an inherently creepy thing on its own, you have to learn to walk the line between a simple lie that spirals before the characters can stop it, versus a lie on top of a lie on top of… Well, you get the picture.
During the course of Sierra Burgess’s movie, she comes across as selfish, delusional and even downright psychotic.
A list of examples include: pretending to be deaf, (and trust me, as bad as it seems without context, it’s not much better with.) Kissing a boy without his consent, and blackmailing a supposed friend for a kiss she didn’t even want or ask for, because it’s some sort of “betrayal” in Sierra’s twisted mind.
Yeah so… when the “bully” of your movie is a better person than the quote unquote, main character… And had the better character arc, it’s probably not a good movie.
But I’m getting off topic:
Love hard, better balances it’s humor with frustrating situations, rather than downright infuriating characters. It plays such a ridiculous story in almost more of a comedic lens, than a purely romantic one.
And this works in it’s favor. The writer’s are aware that this cat-fishing situation is a ludacris idea, and they embrace the ridiculous side of it.
Both characters learn from their mistakes and try to right them. The Cat-fisher Josh Lin, learns that while his interactions with the other character may have been real, he was still deceiving her. And that he set them both up for disappointment.
Natalie Bauer (the other character) realizes that the actual guy in the photo she thought she met online, Tag, doesn’t hold a lot of the same ideals and interests as she does, and kind of bores her.
I appreciated this movie because it didn’t try to excuse the characters for their awful behavior, and had fun with it’s crazy premise. While also surprisingly handling it better than the movie that DID take itself extremely seriously.
I would have given this a higher rating, but one thing did really bother me, and that was when the main love interest would at times veer scarily close to incel (#killallincelsplz) territory. Luckily he never crossed that line, but he came way too close for comfort.