Ultimately I am glad I read it. Read it because recommend by Melissa in ADHD marriage book.
Pros:
- biggest pro is this book's advice works without your spouse's participation
Cons (from my perspective very subjective)
- has a huge emphasis on first family and repairing your relationship with your parents and siblings in order to help your current relationships. I didn't find this applicable
- while there is a summary of tips, the lessons are baked into examples in the book, so you have to read the whole book sometimes reread parts to implement the advice
General information:
This book basically says you have choices:
- choices in how you phrase things to get better results
- choices to " act differently" to get out of ruts in your relationship
- explains how current phrases and choices contribute to same pattern happening again and again
- this book isn't magic, you may have to leave your spouse to be happy. but you may find a way to be happy without leaving your spouse.