This is a must have for any women out there that are struggling with this syndrome. I have been for the last 20 years and it has almost ruined my marriage a number of times. My case is a bit different as my stepdaughter was an adult when her Dad and I got married. Even so, the drama and heartache that we both have endured was and still is just awful. I bought this book in the hopes that my SO would read it and use the tools given inside the book to put a stop to this craziness. Only time will tell. Enjoy!