I can see why Prince Harry felt a compelling need to have his memoirs written and published. I can only imagine how freeing it must have felt for him to speak of his truth especially with all the scathing criticisms thrown at him by the media. No one really knows what it’s like to be exactly in his shoes so it’s refreshing to learn of his personal experiences being born and raised in the monarchy institution—the privileges, challenges and downside of being a “spare”. I am amazed with how much Prince Harry divulged of his private life especially in the military. Vulnerable yet fearless, he did not hold back with his emotions and experiences growing up. His nomadic existence and inner reflections about his childhood trauma and growing pains are relatable to those who felt unheard or shunned by their family. With the personal accounts he has shared of his family, I don’t think he spoke ill of them. It doesn’t portray anyone of them as villainy at all. In fact, after reading the book, I can empathise with the complex dynamics of their royal family. Prince Harry merely aired their differences and how he desperately yearned to be understood above all by his family. Don’t we all? I’m taken by how much he cares for his father’s happiness, his longing to be closer to his brother, and how he tenderly shares his special bond with the late Queen. Needless to say, I found “Spare” surprisingly thoughtful, witty, informative, cathartic and above all, sincere.